John 3:30
Amplified Bible
30He must increase, but I must decrease. [He must grow more prominent; I must grow less so.]
There is a blessing in brokenness. You are emptied out so that God can pour Himself into you. You have to be broken so that He can fix you for His purpose. God matures you in the breaking. He teaches you to lean on Him. He is able to fix character flaws. You must decrease so He can increase.
God's love is so great that He will remove the parts He can't use. He will use a high pressure situation to do it. You usually don't see it coming. Those things the enemy uses to try to destroy you, actually is a golden opportunity. If you really give it to God , you'll see the blessing in the brokenness. God wastes nothing. He uses it to change you into something else. Without warning, God will allow a situation to come suddenly or violently. If you are obedient in the midst of the storm to everything God says, you get the blessing that He intended for you.
At the end of the breaking, a radical change occurs. Your walk, talk, the way you relate to people and God is revolutionized. The person you were is gone. People are going to mourn the old you. You may long for the old you at times. But God and Heaven are rejoicing over the new you.
God Bless